I break down one of the biggest imbalances destroying modern relationships — the lack of reciprocity in expectations between men and women. I talk about how men are often taught to meet every expectation a woman has, but rarely to define their own standards. I’ll share how this dynamic leads to resentment, imbalance, and frustration, and what men can do to restore integrity, respect, and balance in their relationships.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – The core imbalance in modern relationships
00:57 – What women are taught vs. what men are taught
02:44 – The cost of overgiving and having no standards
06:17 – Bringing your own expectations into relationships
09:13 – The moving target of expectations
10:40 – Restoring balance and reciprocity
12:22 – Knowing your value and defining your standards
14:11 – Communicating expectations and setting boundaries
16:55 – Don’t reward disrespect
18:50 – Expect deeply, love generously
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