In this intimate London-based episode of
LOVERS, Shan sits down with the legendary storyteller and pleasure educator
Seema Anand, the woman who transformed
shame into
sacred power.
From being judged and silenced for her fascination with the
Kama Sutra to becoming its most celebrated modern interpreter, Seema shares how self-love became her act of rebellion. Together, we talk about:
✨ Growing up rebelling against libertine attitudes and then discovering Tantra
✨ The link between
shame, sensuality, and self-expression
✨ Why women still feel guilt for wanting pleasure
✨ The truth behind the
Kama Sutra’s ancient wisdom
✨ How to fall in love with yourself — unapologetically in your sixties or at any age
This episode was inspired by our collaboration jewelry line
KAMA, created to remind women to
prioritize pleasure — in bed and beyond. Each piece is designed to honor the art of connection and confidence. In collaboration with Surmeyi, our Käma collection celebrates women’s bodies as inseparable from nature, and pleasure as the invisible force balancing the universe. Get your jewelry today:
💎 The entire
KAMA jewelry line is now back in stock for the holidays.
Shop the collection:
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Also Seema’s brand new book Speak Easy is now available for preorder
https://www.amazon.in/Speak-Easy-Field-Longing-Intimacy/dp/9361319337
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