What if the most painful ending of your life was actually the doorway to a deeper beginning? What if divorce were not proof that you are broken, disqualified, or beyond repair but an invitation to reclaim wholeness, dignity, and hope on the other side of profound loss? In this deeply human a...
What if the most painful ending of your life was actually the doorway to a deeper beginning? What if divorce were not proof that you are broken, disqualified, or beyond repair but an invitation to reclaim wholeness, dignity, and hope on the other side of profound loss?
In this deeply human and courageous UNCORKED conversation, Tim Windsor sits down with Bill Koontz to step straight into one of life’s most avoided and misunderstood experiences and to dismantle the lie that divorce is the end of the story. Together, they explore the ache, grief, anger, and shame that so often accompany divorce, while refusing to let those forces have the final word.
Bill shares his own raw journey through divorce, false accusations, estrangement from his children, and years of rebuilding identity and trust. From that lived experience, he offers a grounded, compassionate framework for healing that goes far beyond mere survival. The conversation unpacks why divorce wounds so deeply through loss of companionship, intimacy, and identity and why denial, blame, shame, and untreated anger quietly keep people stuck. Tim and Bill also confront the hidden realities few talk about, including depression, suicidal thoughts, and the destructive power of shame, and they replace silence with honesty, grace, and practical wisdom.
Listeners will walk away with clear, actionable insights, including a robust five-step process for breaking free from shame, reframing forgiveness as liberation rather than excusing harm, and a renewed sense that healing is possible even after devastating loss. This episode is not soft, sentimental, or abstract. It is real, hopeful, and deeply human. Whether you are navigating divorce yourself, walking alongside someone who is, or simply want to understand how people rebuild after life fractures, this conversation will challenge your assumptions and remind you that beyond the rubble, something wonderful can be built.
Tim Windsor
the UNCOMMODiFiED Podcast – Host & Guide
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PRODUCERS: Alyne Gagne & Kris MacQueen
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