In this powerful episode of Skin Anarchy, Dr. Ekta Yadav sits down with one of the most influential minds in modern aesthetics, Dr. Steven Dayan — facial plastic surgeon, New York Times bestselling author, educator, and founder of XOMD Skincare. Together, they explore the deeper layers of beauty: the biology, the psychology, and the emotional resonance that shape how we see ourselves and others.
Dr. Dayan reflects on his unconventional path from sculptor to surgeon, sharing how art, science, and human emotion converged to form his philosophy of aesthetics. Beauty, he explains, is rooted in evolution — a subconscious signal of wellness and vitality — but attraction is the true driver of human connection. Confidence, authenticity, posture, expression, and energy all play into how attractive we feel, and therefore how we’re perceived.
Throughout the conversation, Dr. Dayan breaks down the subtle, powerful ways aesthetic treatments can influence mood and behavior. Small changes can boost approachability and positivity — while overtreatment can create emotional dissonance and mistrust. He offers a candid look at how social media has reshaped our aesthetic bias, urging both providers and consumers to recalibrate toward natural proportions and personal identity.
Dr. Dayan also gives listeners an inside look at XOMD Skincare, his newest innovation with Dr. Sabrina Fabi, built around the neurochemical link between skin health and confidence.
Listen to the full episode to learn how Dr. Dayan is redefining beauty through the lens of neuroscience, culture, and human connection — and why confidence may be the most transformative aesthetic treatment of all.
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CHAPTERS:
(0:02) - Introduction & Guest Welcome
(1:12) - Early Life, Medicine & the Path to Surgery
(3:01) - Writing, Creativity & the Philosophy of Beauty
(6:05) - Defining Beauty: Neuroscience, Evolution & Emotion
(11:00) - Beauty vs. Attraction & the Role of Confidence
(14:50) - Social Media, Trends & Aesthetic Bias
(18:40) - Authenticity, Expression & First Impressions
(21:03) - Rethinking Training, Safety & Best Practices
(24:00) - Global Beauty Standards & Cultural Perspectives
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