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Getting Robbed by Hookups (w/ Lushious Massacr)
New Jan 09, 2026 55 min EXPLICIT

Getting Robbed by Hookups (w/ Lushious Massacr)

Drag queen icon Lushious Massacr joins Nicole to share how she fell in love last night with a man she met on Facebook Dating, getting charmed by a panty sniffer, and the reason she’s banned from Hi...

Addressing the Lies & Backlash (w/ Ginger Minj)
Jan 02, 2026 1h 12m EXPLICIT

Addressing the Lies & Backlash (w/ Ginger Minj)

Drag queen icon Ginger Minj (Drag Race All Stars winner S10) joins Nicole to discuss the backlash she’s faced since winning the crown and addresses the "lying" accusations swirling around her - and...

How to Trick your Partner Into Better Taste (w/ Bobby Berk)
Dec 26, 2025 45 min EXPLICIT

How to Trick your Partner Into Better Taste (w/ Bobby Berk)

Emmy Award-winning interior designer Bobby Berk (Queer Eye, Junk or Jackpot?) joins Nicole to share the secrets of success behind his 22-year relationship. He discusses meeting his husband on Gay.c...

A Cathartic Year End Rant (w/ Mike Mitchell)
Dec 19, 2025 1h 27m EXPLICIT

A Cathartic Year End Rant (w/ Mike Mitchell)

Happy holidays! You’re getting an xxxtra special xxxtra long holiday episode with Santa Claus himself (Mike Mitchell - Doughboys podcast, Twisted Metal). He joins Elf Nicole to complain about why S...

Defending Our Marriage (w/ Latrice Royale & Christopher Hamblin)
Dec 12, 2025 1h 0m EXPLICIT

Defending Our Marriage (w/ Latrice Royale & Christopher Hamblin)

Drag Race royalty Latrice Royale and her husband Christopher Hamblin join Nicole to discuss the wild story of how he went from a fan organizing a messy meet-and-greet to Latrice’s husband. They get...

Oversharing (w/ Yvie Oddly & Ryan Mitchell)
Dec 05, 2025 1h 2m EXPLICIT

Oversharing (w/ Yvie Oddly & Ryan Mitchell)

Drag Race winner Yvie Oddly (season 11) and co-host Ryan Mitchell (HIGHKEY!) join Nicole to overshare.Yvie discusses her reaction to Ariana Grande naming her a favorite, her thoughts on the interne...

The Dark Reality of 'Skinny Privilege' (w/ Nava Kavelin)
Nov 28, 2025 52 min EXPLICIT

The Dark Reality of 'Skinny Privilege' (w/ Nava Kavelin)

When Nava Kavelin (host of Podcrushed) lost weight at 16, the shift in how the world treated her was immediate and jarring. She went from being invisible to having 10 boys aggressively pursuing her...

Fraud & Legal Battles (w/ Lexi Love)
Nov 21, 2025 54 min EXPLICIT

Fraud & Legal Battles (w/ Lexi Love)

What happens when a porn actress comes after your drag name? Lexi Love (RuPaul's Drag Race S17) joins Nicole to talk through the legal fight she never expected to be in and what it is costing her t...

Losing Everything (w/ Tig Notaro)
Nov 14, 2025 59 min EXPLICIT

Losing Everything (w/ Tig Notaro)

In 2012, comedian Tig Notaro was diagnosed with invasive cancer, got pneumonia, contracted C. diff, went through a breakup, and then lost her mother - all within four months. Tig joins Nicole to ta...

Kiki-ing (w/ Oscar Montoya)
Nov 07, 2025 1h 2m EXPLICIT

Kiki-ing (w/ Oscar Montoya)

Comedian and friend Oscar Montoya (Dropout TV, Drag Her) is back for another kiki. They talk about the best slutty Halloween costumes, the casual racism in early-2000s fashion, recounts s...

Why Won't You Scare Me? (w/ Mano Agapion)
Oct 31, 2025 1h 7m EXPLICIT

Why Won't You Scare Me? (w/ Mano Agapion)

Boo! Friend and comedian Mano Agapion (Drag Her, We Love Trash) joins Nicole for a Halloween special with a creepy ghost story, a "psychic" sex criminal, funeral planning, and lipstick teeth. Mano ...

Never Dated (w/ Kim Chi)
Oct 24, 2025 49 min EXPLICIT

Never Dated (w/ Kim Chi)

Drag queen icon Kim Chi (RuPaul's Drag Race S8, author of Kim Chi Eats The World) joins Nicole to talk about what it’s like to have never dated anyone, and whether she even wants to. She opens up a...

Happy Endings (w/ Pit Crew Bruno)
Oct 17, 2025 49 min EXPLICIT

Happy Endings (w/ Pit Crew Bruno)

Model and Drag Race pit crew member Bruno Alcantara joins Nicole to discuss his love for biting (and the time he got kicked out of a bar for it), being barefoot on set of Drag Race, working as a ma...

Send Me Your Hole Pics (w/ Angeria Paris VanMichaels)
Oct 10, 2025 1h 0m EXPLICIT

Send Me Your Hole Pics (w/ Angeria Paris VanMichaels)

Drag queen Angeria Paris VanMichaels (Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars S9) wants your hole pic. She joins Nicole to talk about the etiquette of hooking up with a RuGirl, those confusing “boyf...

The Viral Hijabi Pole Dancer (w/ Neda Momeni)
Oct 03, 2025 1h 2m EXPLICIT

The Viral Hijabi Pole Dancer (w/ Neda Momeni)

Nurse practitioner and pole dancer Neda Momeni is here and teaches Nicole a lot! From her years as a labor and delivery nurse, she explains what actually happens in the hospital during childbirth a...

Hooking Up with Go-Go Dancers (w/ Adore Delano)
Sep 26, 2025 1h 1m EXPLICIT

Hooking Up with Go-Go Dancers (w/ Adore Delano)

Drag queen, singer, and actress Adore Delano (RuPaul's Drag Race S6, All Stars 2, American Idol) joins Nicole to share stories about hooking up with go-go dancers, filming ...

Sex Talk Got Me Fired (w/ Rachel Bilson)
Sep 19, 2025 47 min EXPLICIT

Sex Talk Got Me Fired (w/ Rachel Bilson)

Actress Rachel Bilson (The O.C., Broad Ideas) once lost a job over something she said on a podcast. She tells Nicole what that was like, current cancel culture, and why “free speech” doesn’t always...

Hosting a Sex Party (w/ Big Dipper)
Sep 12, 2025 1h 11m EXPLICIT

Hosting a Sex Party (w/ Big Dipper)

Rapper and friend Big Dipper (host of Sloppy Seconds) returns to the pod! He and Nicole dive into how he became a bear, the many “gaybels” that shape queer dating culture, and the highs and lows of...

I'm Bi Now (w/ Jenson Titus)
Sep 05, 2025 49 min EXPLICIT

I'm Bi Now (w/ Jenson Titus)

Comedian, clown, and artist Jenson Titus (of @VeryGayPaint) tells Nicole what it was like to date someone who's in the process of transitioning. The experience made him realize he’s bi, and left hi...

Stealing Condoms at the Olympics (w/ Adam Rippon)
Aug 29, 2025 56 min EXPLICIT

Stealing Condoms at the Olympics (w/ Adam Rippon)

Olympic figure skater Adam Rippon (Winner of Dancing with the Stars) joins Nicole to share the dating life of a Olympian. He shares what it was like being one of the first openly gay U.S. Olympians...